180man Thread 4

[Jim1234]

180, date or don't date, it's up to you.

I opted to date, and in some ways it's been good. Someone to talk to and enjoy dinner or a movie with. Just make it clear what's going on at home and what you want out of it before you get together. Some women will be fine with just a dinner companion, others will say "no thank you" until you are emotionally available.

On the other hand, I often have a voice in the back of my head saying "what the heck are you doing? You're still married!" I know I'm not, but that's not what the little voice says. Also, I do experience a little guilt, like I"m leading them on. And it's a lot of effort. Especially since I have no long term interest in them.