Coly, Friendship is the very first stage. Think back to when you met your h...you were friends first and then went on to something more involved.
I would suggest that you back off for a couple of weeks and allow him to contact you first. Do not be the first one to break that non-communication. You knows you so well and is counting on you to be the first one to do the contacting. Change it up a bit and do a 180 and wait it out. Trust me, he's not going anywhere.
Think of life this way...the past is history, the present is a gift of time and the future is a mystery and one that will unfold when it's ready.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
