Leaving it up to God (but still interfering!)

[Sotto]

I'm glad you guys had a good meeting and I'm sure your H will reflect on that - even if he may not say anything? Good for you sitting back a little more and not suggesting another meet up and not jumping in and filling the gaps etc - that is growth I think..

From all that you post, I think your greatest challenge is to sit back and let him initiate more. To accept that he has some stuff going on and your R may be sporadic for now. Try not to see this as the potential 'start of something' - because that immediately sets you up for growing expectations...

I would say let him be for a couple of weeks now - and who knows he may get in touch and suggest doing something else. If not, you can see where you are at and maybe suggest another get together. But in the meantime, make some lovely plans just for you and enjoy what life has to offer.

Xx