Well, I need to keep getting better. After hanging out with my wife and her uncle and his family at our house, I blew up at something that he did that I felt was inappropriate. I asked my wife to come to our room and got upset with her. I said that if there is something going on between them to let me know and we'd get divorced if that was what she wanted. She said there is not, swore up and down and I believe her. But I could tell I had ruined the progress I'd made over the last few days. I texted her later and apologized for blowing up (but not for getting upset over the behavior).
When she comes over today, we will see what happens. I bought her a mother's day card and small gift from our son, and I haven't texted her at all (usually I would bombard her with texts). Her relationship with her uncle is definitely a problem for me but I don't know how to deal with it, anytime I say something she says "He's my uncle!" and she feels there is nothing inappropriate at all.
