I was criticized on this board for sharing my version of Ex-H' s story instead of mine. Well, I believe his story is what brought me here in the first place. The unexpected twist of good and evil in matter of second.

It is only fair to share an update on his situation from what I am aware of. Both Ex-H and current lady still drink, fight, make up and live in la-la land without regards to the environment they create for others living with them. Therefor, Little lady' s son moved out 2 years ago and does not keep in touch with them. Her daughter has one more year before graduating high school and is planning on doing that year in Kap.., where she is originally from. Her and Ex-h' s do not get along.
In my son' s opinion, if ex-h does not clean his act, no-one will be in touch with him in the near future.

And there it is... Joy, love and happiness????... Mascarade..

This is why we are told on here to detach, be nice, be good but let their MLC run its course. Watch the show. If they chose the family in the future, they will do what it takes to get the family. Simple as that!! Step aside and let them figure their sh*t out..

Our outcome ( me and the children)? PRICELESS!!!!