Leahsue, we are very similar in our behaviors during this journey. I kept "acting" like I was detached but then kinda hung on every text, response or non-response. And for every time I was able to pull back I would then pursue. But in the last month I started picturing a future without WH and lo and behold, talk about the tables turning. Instead of there being tension and anxiety when WH was around I was relaxed and occupied. We've had a sort of break through recently. He viewed my detachment as being passive aggressive and purposely aloof, it wasn't...I just...detached.
What GALing have you been doing?
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
