I feel as if I am in the same boat. Same sitch as you regards to W showing behavior of coming around. But its as if the OM is still somehow in her ear. OM endes conmunication, but my W may have just found anither to secretly contact him.
Sandi, you mentioned all those were ways that a WW could end up back at a starting place. I am not at a place where my W would agree to no contact. But if she was I know for certain that my W has screen shots of photos from his FB page and has written at least 3 poems about their sexual experience on her phone. Could that there keep her in a permanent withdrawal? And if so how would I address that situation.