Thank you as always Sandi. That makes perfect sense the way you stated it. Any thoughts of next steps for me? I'm in a strange place where she is kind, friendly, seems tolerant if not slightly happy to spend time with me, a bit more caring and she's definitely stepped up on her responsibilities as a parent. But, she still hasn't come clean on lies she's told me even when shown proof. She denies almost all wrong doing. I have no proof of a continuing affair but something still doesn't feel right...besides the lies.
