Thank you hoosjim. We are in this together it appears and I take a bit of comfort knowing that I am not the only way...unfortunately.
Yes you made a good point in this day and age. There are ALWAYS different ways and methods to get around detection. I am in the IT security field and know quite a bit about this and know that you can always hide online if you really try hard enough. This is the reason I have no pressured TOO MUCH to have her open her phone to me. She'll say or think I'm controlling and I'll be left with likely no evidence of anything because it's already deleted or hidden.
Thank you for the thoughts and prayers and same for you my friend.
