I'm sorry that happened Thornton - and sorry for her pain in finding that too - snooping does carry risks and you may find something that causes you sadness. And yes I also wondered why she is rummaging through your wallet!! I would certainly keep it about your person henceforth!

If she asks, I would honestly tell her your IC suggested you write that list to help you heal from her decision to end the R. In writing it, you hadn't intended she would read it and feel hurt. It is a shame she looked in your wallet and found it. You could also say there is an unwritten list of lovely qualities too - and that we all have our beautiful qualities and areas we could grow to....

Or don't say anything and let her be. Honestly, she does seem to cause her own dramas I think....

(((((Hugs)))))

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus