So the exact words were "I don't want you to not feel welcome here" and she said "it's not that, I just feel that this is something I need to do, and it's just for a bit" but she didn't say how long. I'm figuring that maybe after a few weeks of living apart maybe I can re-open communication.
I asked her if the was OM, and she said if there was she would be with him. She tells me all the time she doesn't consider us together anymore.