So, my wife and I just had a long talk, and after pleasantly catching up after two weeks apart, she told me "I'm going to be sleeping at my uncle's house" (he has a spare room and lives with his wife and two kids) and I will go over there after our son goes to sleep and come back before he wakes up so he doesn't notice.
I wanted to beg and plead with her to stay, but I resisted, told her ok, that she was always welcome back, and then she said she doesn't want to see me much even during the day. I'm absolutely crushed, because before we were still living together, but maybe this is what she needs. She did say it's just for a time, and she thinks this is what she needs, I'm going to do my best to let her go and not bug her, but that meeting with chuck can't come soon enough.
