Wading through v. 2.0

[leahsue]

Cadence,
This may not be what you want to hear, but I'm reading this "soft, kind voice mail" thing as- the cold, selfish attitude did not produce the results I wanted, and now I have these bills staring me in the face that I did not think about in my haste to end this relationship.... so now let's see if kindness will work on her to help get these practical matters taken care of. It smells like manipulation. I'd be very careful here and let your brain look out for you in this part of the situation, not your heart. Miss him in private. But be strong in real time. Don't be talked into a financial situation that will be damaging to you, just b/c you don't want to see him hurt. He didn't guard your heart, so don't be the gatekeeper for his wallet. He made his bed......