Hey LITB, thanks for the supportive response. I think there are two possible realities occurring with my W right now. The first, and most likely, is that the A continues. The second, which is still very possible, is that she's just done and running away.

Either way, I guess my path is the same, yes?

1.) Keep working on me
2.) Don't respond to her email
3.) Let the lawyers sort out the assets but instruct my lawyer to be cordial and kind
4.) Consider reaching out to her a few months from now once she's on deployment (recommended by my DB coach and 25...though I will certainly bring this up here again before doing anything)
5.) See what happens...

Right? In the mean time, I guess maybe it's time to finally take my ring off. She's extremely clear about what she wants right now.


M-32 W-32 (both military)
T-8 M-6
PA Oct/Nov 16 (happened twice)
Discovered PA 11/30/16
S 12/1/16
MC 12/1/16 - 1/18/17
BD 1/18/17
A continues? 1/24/17 texts resume with W & OM
W Filed 3/8/17
W Deploys 7/17