East,

Don't beat yourself up, but as with Vapo and Kaizen this probably isnt' the time to do an attachment. I'm sure it give you comfort, ego stroke, confidence, but still good to just thaw out.

You don't know where you will be in a month. You might be missing your W, you might not, but do you want to risk that right now with attachment?

Best of luck.


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17