That is something I appreciate, I feel that she is being honest, brutally honest, but honest. I don't think she's had an affair (despite me accusing her of one a few months ago, which really drove a massive wedge between us) and I don't feel like she's sneaking behind my back. I just think she hates being with me (because she told me) and doesn't enjoy being around me and feels nothing for me but a friend/brother relationship (all her exact words). She also feels I never took control enough in our relationship (sex and normal life) and I was insecure(true).
I'm making some positive changes already, like when she tries to bait me into an argument I simply listen, respond, and then rather than try to over analyze it and bombard her with texts and I'm sorry's, I just let her be to think about it. She called me angry and upset (not even about stuff I've done) 3 times over the past 2 weeks when I was visiting her family, and after she hung up I simply left her alone, and all 3 times she apologized a few hours later for being so harsh, which has never happened. So chalk one win up to an experiment!
