She said that since we aren't together anymore (even though she still sleeps in our bed and hasn't filed for divorce) she doesn't want to do things with me, and she wants to make this year her "selfish year" since our whole marriage I never let her have any fun (Yes, I was a bit controlling the first year or so of our marriage, but not to the extent of keeping her from having fun, more that I was jealous and possessive).
