Hi Vapo. Yes, thumbs up for us LBS dads. Funny how you said that, you cant trust her for anything. It's like they just f=drop the skill they learnt as parents or pick up the skill of pretending to be useless.

Hi SBJ, the memory thing is crazy. I'm sure if I started telling my XW (if I had the chance to) the things she has done , she will snap and deny it all. Her quarter life crises over 10 years ago , when she left for a few months only. she didn't remember anything. Even around BD I said she was repeating the same thing she did. She denied it. Said it never happened. Those shark eyes were present and the smirk of getting away with everything as well.

So its been nearly 2 weeks I signed the documents to have power over my daughters savings plans for school. They called XW to come sign them as well as stated in the divorce agreement. She has yet to show up. So my next step will be to go back to court to have the judge remove any decision making about the girls. This will mean I will no longer need her permission to travel , register the girls for school or anything related to their lives . Once they are 18 they can sign any documents themselves.

Sad feeling about it but I think its necessary. No news from her either except she forwarded an email from the school that she received. She sent it without adding any comments or message. I also received it from the school so there was no need to forward it over. I guess she felt helpful.


hope you are all well.
Irish


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015