Before I met my current W, I was married for 5 years to another woman.
I went through the same bomb drop with her and I was devestated. She left me and moved into a new house. What I didnt know at the time is she bought the damn house and left me to drown in the house she had with me. It was awful as I ended up short selling it.
Again, another case where she was finished. She bought a freakin' house an hour away. That should have been the final nail in the coffin, right?
I went NC and even started dating another woman (I do not recommend this as I had not healed from my marriage falling apart).
6 months later she is texting me, calling me, emailing me and threatining suicide if I didn't take her back. She is losing her mind!
6 months prior, I was the one wanting to die and chasing her all over the place.
By the time W started come back around, it was too late. I was smitten with another girl.
Point is, even when the WAS does things that make it seem impossible to come back from, NOTHING is set in stone.
The only constant in life is change. Nothing is ever set in stone.
