Hello Bluegirl,

It seems that you have been struggling with this for quite some time and I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe you should read up on Michelle's advise on "healing from infidelity". No, like TxHubby said, you will never forget but you can heal and forgive.

Do you guys still see a MC and do you want a D? Do you believe this last filing from H is another "manipulating technique" or a genuine one?

Have you ever contact the DB coaches and set up some time to talk with them? They can advise you best on how to handle the situation so maybe give them a call.

I would also continue to post on here and the vets will reach out. This is a great place to get advice and support so keep update your sitch when you can.


M: 37 W: 36
T: 16 M: 11
D2: 8,3
PA: 2015
WAW: 2016
W Filed: 2017
2/07/2017 W officially dating OM2