Wife Says "Its Over" and is hard and angry with me

[Coconut]

Don't go out of town for a week or two just to get a reaction from her, and definitely don't use your son as a pawn... If you need some time alone, tell her you're going to take that time, make a schedule for nights you want to go out and do things alone, and that she needs to take care of son. Your GAL activities would be a good reason, such as joining a team, league, or whatever and you won't be available on x nights and she'll need to provide care.