The counselors are correct. When the stressors are removed, they should calm down...but it takes time for this to happen, i.e., people need to remember that the crisis didn't happen over night, it has taken years for it to come to the point of bubbling up to the surface and spewing. It will take a while before a person in crisis finally settles down. Some settle down quickly and others...well, it takes them a long time. Unfortunately, it's not something that we can predict.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
