She says she never loved me, married me with the intention of divorcing me, she says I tricked her by being a different person before we got married than after, she blames me for our son, for everything that happened to her in our relationship is my fault.
Downhub,
Sorry you're here, but keep posting. It helps. I hope you understand the statement above is 100% related to your W's guilt. This is a classic action by WAS that they spew pain to everyone but themselves to help justify their actions.
It hurts, it's painful to hear, etc. I just hope to give you some understanding of your W's mind right now based on what others have seen and described on this site. They want anything they can grab on to in order to justify their behavior. You tricked her, she never loved you, blah, blah, blah. You can see there is no responsibility for herself.
I know it doesn't stop the hurt, but I hope this softens the hurt. Be sure to read the links that Cadet posted. It's helpful and keep coming back to post on your sitch.
All the best.
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
