OK, maybe it's just me, but I would suggest that in future you refrain from sexual activity too early in the relationship...because it's not yet a relationship. I now get why Plumber thought it would be ok to send texts of a sexual nature to you. I think sex too early again adds a layer of complexity to the situation. It's one more thing to think "what did that mean?" and it has a tendency to take over and stunt the growth of the relationship. Later on it can be a lovely experience that enhances togetherness but too early...not so much.That's my take and my experience anyway...others may disagree, but I'm putting it out (bad choice of words here) there anyway.
