I seriously thought about it. For Valentines Day, W says she appreciated what I had done. But yet contacted OM earlier that day who didn't even send $0.99 card. Lesson learned on my part. The only reason I was considering doing something, because my fault in the MR was being neglectful. Even though I always stepped up on birthday's and holidays. I didn't want to appear to be going down the neglectful path again. But I don't want to appear to be pursuing as well. This is my dilemma.