Tread, maybe Sandy will have a different view of how you treat women in these situations, but I would do nothing. For Father's Day and perhaps his birthday I will just have the kids write him a card (if they will). He fired me as his wife. I don't owe him anything and I certainly don't want him to think I am pursuing him. Perhaps these little reminders will wake her up to what it means to have no Tread in her life.
