Altair, I am so sorry for your situation. So different from mine. Mine is cold and heartless. We hear nothing for weeks then he drops in on the kids lives again, stays a week or two and leaves again. No kindness, no talk of love or respect. Nothing. And so far he won't even sign the separation contract he asked for.
Your H obviously cares about you very much, but is lost in his own world. Just wondering if you've ever read alisuddenly's posts. I saw someone mention them so I read them. Wow, that woman had a ride. Her guy also kept expressing interest in her. The story does have a happy ending.
I hope that the pain and the numbness wear off for you and that you can find a clear path for yourself in all this mess.
