A few additional things I thought of that I was advice for:
We haven't had sex in months, but her sister was telling me that just a few weeks ago my wife was telling her she wishes I was more dominant in bed and would just take her. Should I still not pursue sex?
I'm going home tonight after being with her family for two weeks. I honestly had a really good time, enjoyed myself, and I know it bothered my wife that I was enjoying myself without her. I didn't text her or beg or plead, and while she insists nothing has changed, she did say that everything hit her two days ago and she has been crying since (I know that's true, I had a question about our son so I called and she was crying on the other end of the phone, I asked what was wrong and she said "Nothing" so I hung up. What should I do when I get back into town? I feel like she has been walking all over me, expecting me to be the full-time baby-sitter, and just being rude and making me feel unwelcome in my own house. I'm going to work on GAL when I get back, but honestly, I've had two weeks of GAL with her family and it was awesome. I sense a change. I just feel like she's fighting it.
I'm considering going home, dropping our son off and then leaving again for a week or two. She said she enjoyed her freedom for the past two weeks, but it was without a kid. Maybe the reality of being alone with out son will shake things up. Bad idea?