I have read your writings on WW vs WAW, albeit not recently, but I never could figure out what I have on my hands or if it matters. She is not in my face about anything like some W's, she has never called me a name or been verbally disrespectful, and in the two times I've seen her since BD in January, the conversation has been calm and as cordial as possible, given the circumstances. It does not feel like we are playing the same game that others are, especially since she has moved out and I'm not seeing her every day. Or maybe we are playing the same game but just a different flavor? Maybe I am naive.
180, My XW is the same. She has been nothing but nice on every interaction we've had since BD, and she is all smiles when we meet. I cant even provoke her to any sort of negative reaction. Us LBS's all react in different ways to our sitches, maybe there also are different levels of waywardness. Or maybe some WW's are able to deal with their issues when they aren't around us.
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17