(((Sara))) I am so proud of you. You are a shining example of what happens after the hard work of 180s, GAL, and self reflection; the natural consequence is detachment. When detachment genuinely starts--not the pretending or forcing--they do notice! The energy is finally shifting as you are finding your power and no longer doing/saying things to get a reaction from him. You are well on your way!
He sees you detaching, getting stronger, and planning a life without him. And it is giving him pause. ... Will he change, self reflect, and commit to the M? I have no idea, but until he shows you that--with consistent actions over time--I would say keep on keepin on, sister!
XOXO Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
