WW in PA: Threaten to tell kids? Confront OM?

[hoosjim]

Thanks, OwnIt, really appreciate the perspective. FWIW you are not the first one to tell me something similar. It's just that in my current situation it seems like there is plenty of conflicting "advice" or philosophies, at least as to the details. I am trying hard, however, to not be overbearing and to keep a healthy "distance". If you've read my story, however, you know that I have alot stacked against me here, and sometimes it is hard to keep the faith and not over-tinker with things. I am stubborn and a fighter (not in the physical, violent sense) by nature, and having only been recently "awoken" and with so many hopes and dreams for the future, I really want to "fight" for this. So distancing is hard to begin with, and doubly so when I know that that is what got me here in the first place. I certainly understand the theory and the principle, however.

Thanks again.