I appreciate the concern, and if things appear to change in the future I will consider what you're saying. At this point we have our MC who is also our divorce mediator should we go that route. We're taking a trial separation as a break, no paperwork of any kind filed and no decisions made. I'm not "leaving", just giving her space, and she's aware that I'm on a one way ticket so I can come back at any point should things change.
I don't want to contact a lawyer, as 25YearsMLC has pointed out I've been very combative using leverage and ultimatums and shading on bullying. We've agreed to keep lawyers out of it and mediate with our MC if we go that direction, so going against that and contacting a lawyer would be another act of aggression. Something I desperately need to 180 away from.
M:33 W:34 S:9 S:11 M:12 years T:16
BD: 02-09-2017 (ILYBINILWY) MC Started: 2-12-2017 EA Discovered: 2-13-2017 PA Discovered: 4-16-17
