We both care deeply for each other, but the marriage is shattered and we both have different agendas on what to do about it. We're not trying to hurt each other.
Yes, I get what youre saying. And believe me, I hope that for everyone's sake, this can continue. But Ive been around here for a while and seen too many stories where one person leaves and the door slams shut behind them.
All Im saying is that if you are going to be away for 6 weeks leaving W in full custody, I would get something DOCUMENTED that explains the long term plan.
Just because you 'arent trying to hurt each other' now, doesnt mean it will be the same in a week, a month, or 6 months down the line. Protect yourself and your relationship with your children.
