heavily discussed with my IC, lol. This was the one who wanted commitment. Who was looking for a wife, a partner a relationship, wanted the whole deal. This was clear from the beginning. In words and actions. She was happy I was finally going for someone who didn't tell me right up front the famous line " I wasn't looking for a relationship....."

The only problem is, in the end, he realized he didn't want to commit to me and my daughter.