I'm smiling reading about your past 3 weeks. It's obviously not perfect, but it seems like you have an opportunity. You seem to be doing a pretty good job of staying level through the push-pull. Keep the beginners mind for the advice you're getting, I think Brene Brown could be a good read for you.
Together 7 years Married 3 Said she was taking long way home late January Left to get some space 2/19/17 BD 3/1/17 ILYB