Of course Chris. I am about 18 months from this bomb drop and feel quite the same way. I kicked mine out in Oct (though he clearly was wanting me to be the bad guy and do it). I have reached the point where I really don't care. I'd like to resolve the financial part. I don't care about divorce and he is not going to try to take my kids, so that is not an issue.
You may feel better when the nesting begins. I know that not living with him and sped up my healing and my ability to move on in my own life.
