While discussing coordination efforts with son on phone with wife yesterday she said 2 things that stood out to me:
1. Each and every time I answer the phone with her, I am upbeat and positive. Yesterday she said, "wow, you sure sound happy". My response, was yeah, I am happy. Continued into conversation.
2. I have been taking my time in responding to her calls/texts now and certainly don't initiate any. During the call yesterday she made the following comment "why do you take so long to respond to my texts at night". I told her that I've been busy and hadn't had a lot of time. Her response was "what are you so busy doing?" my response, "working out, reading, journaling, Bible Study, Etc..." She didn't really have much of a response.
Thought provoking...
Anyone???
Me: 38 Her: 33 Bomb: 1/6/2017 Separated: 1/10/17 Together: 16 Years Son 12 Years Old She and Son still at the house Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17