What little is left of his stuff is stored in my garage. There is no one I can transfer it to right now and I don't want to spend money on storage.
I'm approaching everything from the aspect of what's safest. The safest thing is for him to get well grounded back into his sobriety, and staying where he is now is the best place to accomplish that. The safest thing is also for him not to have a grudge towards me over getting rid of his stuff. I'm making all my choices very carefully with safety in mind.
I only told him what I knew about the latest chick in hopes that he will start to look for another woman to focus on now that he knows I know some of his secrets. I'll be sending him his new phone soon in order to facilitate that behavior.
Don't worry, I'm not the least bit susceptible to being drawn back in, but I think cutting him off cold would be dangerous for me and likely send him back out into the streets. What I DON'T want is for him to be back out on the streets, high and focused on ME as the agent of his destruction. Making careful chess moves.
