WW won't separate

[resolut]

Be kind to yourself! And think of what you would tell a friend. Do you really want this person back as they are? Until they show you they are committed to you, are remorseful, and willing to do whatever it takes to repair the damage, then the answer is quite simple. NO! You do not.

So please trust me--I have come out on the other side--analyzing their every move will not bring them back, and it may push them further away. It tortures you and your self esteem also. So take the focus OFF of them and take care of the person that matters most. YOU!

I hope this is ok but I found this quote over in BuWave's thread and it is helping me so much right now. I wanted to quote it because I don't want to forget it and I want to center my life right now on myself and my kids. I can't control my WW. she has hurt me and still is hurting me. I'm getting an upgrade out of this process one way or another. She doesn't deserve me staying in this right now but I am.