You did the right thing by not contacting him. He did what he did and, you could say, did the best he could with what he had to give. Certainly it is better he was upfront rather than just carrying on for the sex or because he doesn't want to hurt you etc. That doesn't ease the hurt at all, I know. I once dated a woman for five months and in the second month she wanted me to move in with her. I said "no go" and she seemed to accept that. One day, after five months of dating, she phoned me and asked me to come over, which I did and she proceeded to tell me that our R was over because she felt, on her part, it was just lust (and as a guy, I couldn't understand what her problem was lol). She offered to meet me again to say what I needed to say and handed me whatever things I had at her place. I met her again and told her what I needed to say and she said "you can believe what ever you want to believe, if it makes you feel better." And that was that. Yes, she did everything right...she didn't text me, didn't ghost me (like my best friend has had happen twice after dating women for six months) but, my point being, it didn't ease my pain. Hurt is hurt. So G, feel your pain...you have every right to it but what he did or didn't do won't change anything. What is is. Hang in there, you're loved by lots of people!
