No, she's probably done about half the initiating/contacting. It's hard to accurately represent 3 weeks of occurrences without it being a massively huge amount of text.

M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.