On way to DB Victory?

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Question: The longer DB goes on and the less time you visit, speak, communicate with spouse: how do they know you are still interested in working on marriage?

Example: I am GAL, 180, Detaching - and then months go by and we slowly start drifting apart...how does/will she know I still want to work on marriage? Do we ALWAYS let them to be the one to bring it up? What if they are scared of rejection and don't want to bring it up?

Make sense?

The only thing I can think of is do you really want your W back if she's not pursuing you?

I've struggled with many of these same thoughts as you. Keep focusing on yourself and becoming a better version of yourself. If you're W can't see that then that is her problem.