WW won't separate

[resolut]

I've been feeling a lot of anger for the past few days towards my W for the mess she has put us in and its not good for me.

And yes basically I have accepted that the marriage is over at this point. Like I said though on @TxHubby's thread though, I count it as a real defeat if the A continues and we get a D. I'm not a quitter and especially not one on a marriage that I've been in for over half of my life. Three affairs is devastating but I'd much rather be able to end the marriage if my wife will choose to end the A and go into MC and we can find closure. There's little change of this happening but I can try.

So I'm not going to rush things but let them happen from here.

Meanwhile, I'm joining a running club, going on a trip with my kids this summer and fixing the house up because we're going to need to sell it.