Thanks for stopping by col! I do read up on your threads as well ( glad you followed ownits advice!). You are doing well. The slip ups will happen but the important thing is you learn from them. Your H is a tough nut to crack.
Your points are quite valid and I rogcognize them myself even. You can throw 2x4s at me anytime! It's hard though to let go of what happened and I think you are right, I do hold it against her because I do think it will happen again. Logical brain says it is likely to happen again. But I do need to stop. I reached out to her this morning. I am not mean or cold or anything, I just prefer not initiating things.
Anyway, yea after Hawaii things are going to move for sure. 2 years is too long.
I do believe in DB mainly because it was intuitive for me. I definitely own my responsibility in the break down of the marriage. I just hope it doesn't happen again with WW or anyone.
