I like preparing for the worst, but just hoping the outcome would be better than the worst. I try to remain hopeful without giving myself false expectations. It's a fine line.
Hope you get a good break and enjoy some time "off".
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17