Story so far - H has been gone a year this month. I decided to do a 180 (a suggested by DB coach last year but I was not ready to take that action) and sent him a text last week after six weeks of no contact and told him that I hoped he didn't think I was holding his things hostage in the house and that he can come and pick them up anytime he wanted. H responded that he did not think there was a hostage situation and asked if I wanted to go for coffee at the weekend. ... What does this all mean? He is definitely still way down in the rabbit hole or is he? ...
I know that I feel stronger today than I did yesterday but its such an uphill struggle. But I know all I can do is keep moving forward. I still love him with all my heart and miss him terribly but I know I will be okay. I also know and have to forgive myself that every now and again I will backslide but that is the only way I will learn.
Thanks for reading guys. I appreciate your patience with me!
Happy Tuesday everyone!!
Hello Coly23,
I'm glad you went with the 180 that your DB Coach suggested.
You are so smart to recognize that backsliding happens! The good news is that you are recognizing the slip ups and are learning from them.
Please call me at 303-444-7004 when you would like to schedule another session with your Divorce Busting Telephone Coach.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
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