I DID control my emotions. Instead of doing what I said, I vented on this board. That is the definition of controlling my emotions. People don't walk around like robots. Come on guys. I am not all over the place. I don't ever initiate conversations with her, when she calls/text me, I am calm, nice and soft spoken and the first to end the call. Its all good.


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17