I'm sorry you are sad and upset. I hope this doesn't sound bad, however, i offer up a differing opinion. I think frequently people end things not for "the reasons" they state. My gf's xbf broke up with her because "she wasn't fun on vacation and took too long to get ready." This was after a off and on several year relationship. The reality is it probably didn't fit( to him) and he didn't know how to articulate it. Things went fast with FF but you were still super early and getting to know each other. I don't think that text was the "thing."
Hugs.
No, this happened after he broke up with me. he just learned I DO want to have another kid and I knew this for a while but I didn't share. He was emphasizing on how when he broke up with me, he let me know his thoughts the day after they came to his mind ( and the decision a day later). So, thoughts of all this were pondered and decided on in a 24 hour period.
But hey, maybe he's just not into me all of a sudden. Good be it.
I'm just spinning. I always spin after these things.
He did what he did, in an inmmature way, but he chose to do it and now it's over. My shock factor is still there, but I am sure it will subside soon.
