Agreed with everyone. I don't want to force her hand, I want her to "want" to come back under the right circumstances. I figure that when all of this shakes out and the divorce is near final it would have been appx. 8-9 months of separation. The good news is that neither one of us has mentioned the divorce in over 3 weeks.


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17