I've been analyzing what bothers me so much about tonight, besides seeing her and just realizing that she sat across the table from me last year..... so, ok, I figured it out....H will get back here to the main office in about 40 minutes, OW's office is in same building, mine is in another building, and the dinner is in yet another building. They will have time to "hang out" together, and she may latch on to him.....I am not going over the the building their offices are in and "lurk" around.....I may go over to the building the dinner is in early and see what happens.